Q. My husband was just diagnosed with Alzheimer’s, but still seems to be generally okay. Are there legal steps we should take by way of planning for the future? A. Yes. Once you or loved one has been diagnosed with dementia, it is important to take action to get your affairs in order. Here is… Read More »
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Consider Tax Savvy Year End Gifts To Family
Q. My wife and I are considering making large gifts to our two children and three grandchildren, and we would like to do so in a way that is “tax wise”. Do you have any advice for us? A. Yes. Many people mistakenly believe that one cannot gift more than $15,000 per year/person without incurring a… Read More »
Mediation Can Help Preserve Family Harmony
Q. My parents are aging and I find that they are in greater need of assistance for care, paying bills, shopping, and the like. The problem is that there are four of us children and we do not always agree on what is best for mom and dad. I am concerned that, as my parents’… Read More »
How To Preserve Public Benefits For an Adult Child In Divorce
Q. Our daughter is going through a divorce. She has a 19 year old son (our Grandson) who has a disability and gets both SSI and Medi-Cal. She plans to seek child support from the father. We worry that the child support will reduce our Grandson’s SSI and possibly eliminate his Medi-Cal. Is there a… Read More »
Considering Remarriage? Better Also Update Your Wills, Trusts
Q. My fiancé and I will soon marry. We both have our Wills and Trusts already set up as we wish, as we both have children from prior relationships and we each want our own assets to go to our own kids. Is it still necessary to update our Wills and Trusts? A. Yes! Unless… Read More »
Preserving Your Parent’s Low Property Tax on Trust Distribution After Prop. 19
Q. My mom owned her home for 25 years before she recently passed. Her trust leaves it 50-50 to my brother and me. I would like to keep the home by purchasing my brother’s interest for cash, and he is okay with that. Is there a way that we can do this without triggering a… Read More »
Spouse on Medi-Cal? May Be Time To Change Your Will
Q. My husband is in a nursing home and has qualified for a Medi-Cal subsidy to help with care expenses. To qualify, I was obliged to take his name off of most of our bank accounts, so that almost everything is in my name now. However, I have my own health problems and I wonder… Read More »
How Grandparents Helped Humans Evolve
Q. Any thoughts for Grandparents Day, which this year is September 12, 2021? A. Yes. How about this: Archaeological evidence strongly suggests that increasing lifespans, which permitted the creation of an older generation (“grandparents”), played a key role in our evolutionary success. Indeed, this phenomenon may account for why we, as Homo sapiens, replaced archaic… Read More »
Take Care When Naming Minors as Beneficiaries
Q. I would like to name my young grandchildren (ages 3–10 years) as beneficiaries of my estate and my life insurance. Is there anything I should know about this plan? A. Yes. Your wish to do so is commendable, but it is important to make a plan that does not involve leaving assets directly to… Read More »
PACE Program Helps Elderly Remain at Home Instead of Nursing Home
Q. My husband has become frail, and his doctor says he may need to go into a nursing home. However, neither of us is happy with that plan. I want to keep him home. Is there a program that might help us? A. Yes. The “Program for All Inclusive Care for the Elderly” (“PACE”) may… Read More »